( 11:40 GN ) Jesuspiled
I went to Church today for a young adult service, and what I saw there was very eye opening.
But first, I remember going onto a bus with my friends that invited me to church, and we encountered this woman—26—and we didn't assume really anything of her character. Not even her appearance we questioned once. At most she looked like an art student. But she opened up by saying she had a kid. Then she told us she had ADHD. Then she said she was going to her cousin's house. Then she flipped off a black woman in the bus. Then she invited us to a rave. Then she told us there was an underground rave that was happening. Then she told us that she used to stab people, but not anymore. Then she started calling the black woman the n-word. Then we tried conversing with her about stuff. Then she tried to get my friend's IG. Then she got tricked (200 IQ play). Then we talked even more. Then she left the bus. And my friend that was the closest to her started freaking out. He told us that she had her as a stripper on her lock screen. And he was just saying how all the red flags just kept getting higher and higher. I'm not gonna lie, that shit was crazy. But now I understand what a mentally unstable person actually looks like, and now I can rest in peace knowing how they act. But that was such a funny turn of events. This was on our way to church, and we finally got off.
During the bus ride, we talked about some deep stuff. Women problems. And we started bonding fairly well. Even after we hopped off, we were vibing with each other hard. I liked it. Now we at church, and we just keep talking. We talked about how our family raised us, how our parents treated us, how we would lie to our parents. It was some trauma bond or smth but it was aight.
Then we go into the young adult service, and we didn't know what to expect. I didn't know what to expect, but I mean, I'm here for the free food, and the rest is just extra. We all sit at a table, and appearantly there was an elderly couple that sat at our table. We didn't know what to expect, but they talked about their journey. How the husband couldn't stop looking at her in the church service, and how she called him a jerk (creep according to the husband). And they added onto the questions that were on a paper that every table had. But I asked them many questions, and what I learned was shocking!
I learned that communication is essentially key for any relationship to last. I also learned that patience is extremely important as well. And they kept talking about how God is patient so be patient, as He has the best of attributes.
But that's basically it.